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Cognitive-Behavioral Strategies for Improving Insight in Body Dysmorphic Disorder

November 2, 2012 By Stephen

Here are several cognitive-behavioral strategies that are described by the San Francisco Bay Area Center for Cognitive Therapy to improve insight into your BDD

Self-Monitoring

I ask the individual to monitor how his BDD symptoms vary over time. Every hour he rates (0-10) how strongly he believes, for example, that his nose is too large. He also notes what was happening at the time and how he was feeling. We then plot on graph paper the strength of the person’s belief, where 10 is “my nose is too large” and 0 is “my nose is fine.” Sometimes seeing his belief fluctuate by the hour helps the client recognize that he can’t always trust his view of himself.

Cognitive Restructuring

Individuals with BDD have distorted beliefs about their appearance, such as “I have to look perfect,’ or, “If I don’t look good, I’ll be rejected and alone.” Teaching individuals to identify and restructure these distorted beliefs can sometimes help the person gain enough insight to try other bognitive-behaviroal strategies.

Cognitive Distancing

Individuals with BDD have difficulty accepting that they have BDD because that would mean their appearance is okay. One young man who told me session after session that he did not have BDD. What he had was a left ear that was lower than the right ear. He insisted that only plastic surgery would correct the problem.

I commiserated with him and said that plastic surgery was certainly a logical solution to the problem of a true flaw in his appearance but that it was not a solution to BDD. The problem as I saw it was that every time his BDD flared up he bought into the belief that his appearance was flawed. I then taught him a cognitive distancing strategy described by Jeffrey Schwartz in his book titled Brain Lock: Free Yourself from Obsessive-Compulsive Behavior.

Schwartz describes the 4 Rs. I’ll cover the first three here. The first R is “relabel.” The client was taught to relabel any concern, thought, or belief about his appearance as a feature of the BDD, not proof of a physical flaw. He was then to use the second R (reattribute) to attribute every aspect of his experience (his thoughts, feelings, urges, and behaviors) to the BDD. He was then instructed to refocus (3rd R) or distract himself from the BDD thoughts.

An “as if” Attitude

At times I have asked a client to act “as if” he looks okay even if he doesn’t believe it. An “as if” attitude is particularly helpful when trying to get a client to try an exposure exercise that, because of his poor insight, he believes is useless.

I’ve asked clients to use the “as if” attitude to stay at a party when they have a strong urge to leave, to go to social situations when they are inclined to remain home alone, or to stop looking in a mirror when they feel that they must continue. One of my clients used this strategy to go to a party that he wanted to avoid by acting “as if” he was okay and “as if” going to the party would help his BDD and his depression. Once at the party, he was able to use his CB strategies to manage his BDD and that as the evening progressed, he was much less worried about his appearance.

Filed Under: Overcoming Body Dysmorphic Disorder, Treatment of Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD) Tagged With: BDD, Body Dysmorphic Disorder, CBT, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Depression, Insight

Books Worth Reading

Shattered Image: My Triumph Over Body Dysmorphic Disorder

This is a wonderful book written by Brian Cuban – The brother of famed billionaire and tech mogul Mark Cuban from The Shark Tank. It is great to finally hear a man’s voice in this space. The book is honest, timely, and gives practical advice that we can all use to overcome BDD. The book is also available in the Kindle Lending library which is how I found it. This is a must-read.

The Broken Mirror: Understanding and Treating Body Dysmorphic Disorder

A fantastic, concise, and essential book to understand the diagnosis and treatment of Body Dysmorphic Disorder. It is a fairly short and easy read, that is full of top-notch information! Material is complete and presented in an organized and useful way. The understanding enabled for both client and therapist is one of the main traits of this book. And the author is obviously committed to the betterment/healing of her clients.

Feeling Good about the Way You Look A Program for Overcoming Body Image Problems

This is a wonderful book!  Written by the Director of the MGH OCD and Related Disorders Program, and Founder of the Body Dysmorphic Disorder Clinic, this book offers individuals suffering from Body Dysmorphic Disorder with critical tools to understand BDD and to bring their disorder under control. The step by step approach detailed in the book is exactly what is needed for patients and clinicians alike. I have enthusiastically been recommending it to all of my clients who have BDD, and to colleagues interested in learning more about it. This book offers new hope to the millions of people worldwide who live with this troubling, but treatable disorder.

The BDD Workbook: Overcome Body Dysmorphic Disorder and End Body Image Obsessions

This workbook really delves into the thought processes of a person who suffers from this exhausting illness. The worksheets and exercises really cause you to challenge the beliefs which have been ingrained in your memory for decades. I would highly recommend this workbook for anyone who is self-directed and able to work through the exercises on their own.

About Stephen

My name is Stephen and I was officially diagnosed with BDD in October of 2012. I have lived with it my whole life. This blog is my story, my shame, and my path to recovery. It starts on Day 1 of my new life. To live, and love myself, to teach others how to do the same, and learn more about what it means to live with body dysmorphic disorder. Here are some resources that I use...