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Assessing The Cost of Appearance Concerns and Body Dysmorphic Disorder

October 9, 2012 By Stephen

This is my first exercise from Feeling Good about the Way You Look: A Program for Overcoming Body Image Problems. Kindle location 1109 at 24%.

What is My Poor Body Image Costing Me?

Having struggled with poor body image for quite some time I have adjusted life to accommodate my problems. I was no longer aware of the huge toll my problems have taken on my life. Here is my list of disadvantages of being obsessed with my appearance. I will use these to help motivate me to make change.

  1. Dissatisfaction
  2. Shame/embarrassment
  3. Guilt
  4. Anxiety
  5. Concern that my children will become preoccupied with appearance
  6. Loneliness/isolation
  7. Jealousy of better looking people
  8. Self hate
  9. Disgust
  10. Anger
  11. Fear of rejection of abandonment
  12. Fear of being ridiculed
  13. Avoidance of intimate relationships
  14. Stress on relationships due to avoidance behaviors or comparing
  15. Making excuses or lying about the problem
  16. Not being fully present at work because of appearance concerns
  17. Being late because of rituals
  18. Avoidance of body focused activities (swimming, gym, sun)
  19. Refusing overnight trips
  20. Avoidance of social activities
  21. Feeling horrible in certain clothes
  22. Avoidance of getting your picture taken
  23. Avoidance of mirrors
  24. Avoidance of being seen from certain angles
  25. Avoidance of certain tasks (for example, sitting near a window or under bright lights) 
  26. Time for rituals (mirror checking, comparing, shopping appearance fixing)
  27. Accidents due to mirror checking
  28. Alcohol or drugs to cope with preoccupation
  29. Cost of beauty products suck as skin creams and soaps

Questions to Ask Yourself if You are Losing Motivation

  • Do I want to change? Yes
  • Do I want to stop being so obsessed with my looks? Yes
  • Do I want to stop comparing? Yes
  • Am I tired of being scared by mirrors? Yes

Filed Under: Feeling Good About The Way You Look, Overcoming Body Dysmorphic Disorder Tagged With: Appearance Concerns, CBT, Feeling Good About the Way You Look, Therapy, Treatment of Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD)

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